Even though I have a thousand motives to get happy, I’ve been felt a little down…
It’s too hard to focus my mind when just one matter puts me down but I realize when I’m very bad and something very nice happens I get happier than normal.
I’ve listened to Two Worlds by Phil Collins and the first sentence made me feel so much better! “Put your faith in what you most believe in.”
Because my affliction was about something that I’m afraid of… and this singular and amazing song says to trust in the heart and let fate decide what will happen after.
In my heart I really believe everything is going to be GREAT! I know what may depend on me I’m going to do.
Phil Collins – Two Worlds
Why do the people, even knowing everything will turn out great, get crazy?
ANXIETY, it’s like a disease, I don’t know exactly how to explain,
but I feel a really strong feeling when I’m anxious, it’s involuntary!
And if you have a huge imagination it can be worse…
You imagine the most impossible thing that never could happen and you start
believing it’s the only thing can happen. So you get crazy!
Your situation gets worse and worse when you stop to pay attention to different
opinions from different people, so of course your mind will collapse!
What’s my advice? Trust in yourself. If you trust in yourself, you won’t
need another opinion about the same thing/situation then you can
continue living your life by your own way.
And if something gets wrong, you’ll know you did
everything the best way YOU could do.
I’m a stupid, really! I believe in the true love between a couple, where there is love there isn’t betrayal. I don’t want to kiss someone; I want to kiss the only one! I don’t need to hunt a guy… the best one for me can come in a sunny afternoon, smiling while walks and my heart simply surrenders, puts the defenses down.
I stop breathing for a second.
I’m a dreamer, really! I prefer daydreaming and have some inspiration while I sleep. I like to trust in everyone, because I think it’s the right to do… or should be. I always use my bad memory to not keep rancor. When I dream with a better world, I think it needs to start with me.
I’m a stupid, have I already said that? Whatever!
Sometimes, I try to stop to breathe…
Breathing oxygenates the brain that makes you feel better and thinks better.
So the more you breathe the smarter you get and probably you stop making a mess in your life.
I’m very anxious about everything, maybe I get more dynamic but I also get nervous
because of things don’t arrive soon. Therefore I think about “wait”.
Everyone has some difficult to wait something that really wants. It’s really hard.
We need to stop wasting time thinking about useless stuff
and worrying about everything around us. I need!
* I really don’t like to write something with my real feelings, I prefer write about my
thoughts about my feelings and lately I can’t do it, I haven’t made this blog to use like a diary… I’m going to stop to breathe.
I think everyone becomes slave one day,
may be for a short or long time, but it always happens!
Nowadays, “being a slave” doesn’t mean “working hard for nothing”,
we are slave of our wishes or work, perhaps slave of love or hate.
“Being a slave” means to get stuck! Your owner can be everything that
doesn’t let you live, achieve your goals or doesn’t let you be happy!
For example, sometimes I’m slave of peoples’ opinions.
I get stuck! I stop walking and after I get crazy about it. I give up
going on because of what I think (even unconsciously) it’s my owner.
In my case, I have to think about what is important to me based
on what I think is right. Of course I can listen to people who are by
my side, BUT the last word needs to come from me.
You can be a slave of a dependency that harms and blocks you to achieve big goals!
Maybe you need to think about it, if you are a slave and what you can do to change this position… Because, “being a slave” isn’t a good thing to anyone.
I don’t have idea how many times I’ve already said “I’m sorry” and this is my biggest mistake.
I think when you say “I’m sorry” and don’t change anything, don’t improve, it doesn’t have worth.
Sometimes, I prefer to say nothing and simply change, forget what happened and go on.
But I have another big problem: I blame myself even if I’m right. I usually do that when I don’t want to mess with someone who I liked.
OMG, what can I do?
I’ve had some experiences to help about it, first of all you need to think before say or do something (by the way, it’s very important). If you don’t say bullshit you don’t need to apologize after.
You need to comprehend all the situation and, please, don’t lose your mind! When you get crazy about something or someone, usually you’ll ruin everything.
*hint: Jealous isn’t a good thing! Be careful!
And don’t worry about everything, take it easy and enjoy the little things (:
“One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” Pv 18.24
Raise the hand who has a great friend o/
During the life, we have a lot of mates, many friends and some incredible friends.
I have sure you have some names in mind! I think it’s amazing when I look at my friend and both of us say: OMG! I’m gonna tell this moment to my grandchildren!!!
There are many types of friend:
– Fool Friend
The most of time, this friend doesn’t have idea about what’s doing.
Makes you laugh a lot, you don’t live without him/her
– Lovely Friend
Your emotional friend! Always hugs everyone, talks a lot about his/her feelings about everything around! And he/she cries a lot.
– Nasty Friend
This friend… You always say something like: “OMG! What are you doing?”, “Hey! Stop doing it!” or “You are crazy! I’ll never go out with you”
The last one it’s a lie!
– Adventurous Friend
When you wanna go out to a new and weird place… You call him/her!
This friend always accepts everything you propose to do.
– No-Nerds Friend
Do you know when you need to study on weekends?
This friend doesn’t know anything about it! He/she never lets you study.
– Desperate Friend
One word: Anxiety. He/she is very anxious about everything! During his/her vacation, this friend gets worry about doesn’t have money for the next vacation.
– Angry Friend
… I’m not going to talk about this friend because he’ll get angry.
There are a lot of others types of friend and each one knows about the own friends!
What types of friend do you have?
Sometimes I feel weak because of the love’s dependency. Why do I need love?
Because nobody can be egotistic during all their life, we need to love to find the answer.
But nowadays, what’s the meaning of “love”? I see many people pretending to love. Why do I think people pretend something like that? Because, honestly, I think neither “betrayal” nor “lie” have a relation to love. First of all, love is respect! This way, we can act with love, so love is action too. You don’t need to kiss someone or give some sugar to love the person, being polite it’s the first step to act with love.
WHY DO I NEED TO ACT WITH LOVE TOWARDS SOMEONE WHO I DON’T KNOW OR LIKE?
Because I don’t think anyone likes to be treated badly…
Unless you like it, forget everything I’ve said (:
We need to keep the focused to be the difference we want.
Everybody has some moments to have fun, to relax and not to think about daily problems…
But when we stop to paying attention, we do not pay attention!! We just forget everything…
We forget the little things of our live. These things go away and we don’t realize.
The time never stops, so if we collaborate and live in a hurry,
we’re going to lose what really matter.
Have you already tried to make the difference only with a “Good morning”?
Have you already tried to do something and not waiting for a reply?
It’s really amazing, you feel like a human! You stop pretending you are living and you live!
Sit with some friends, give a hug to someone special for you or to someone who considers you special. Give a kiss to your family, speak good words during your day or tell something good to somebody.
Don’t ask for a reason for everything and always search for a reason.
You can live well living on balance.
“Saudade” is a word in Portuguese without meaning
for others countries but it means everything.
“I miss you” in English can explain a little about the word but that isn’t enough.
Saudade is absence, love, comfort, zeal, happiness or lack of it.
It hurts, burns, itches, tortures, invades, consumes.
Saudade just exists because before it, there was love, friendship, comprehension, affection.
It’s a feeling that mixes different feelings and sometimes you find yourself lost in nowhere.
You make promises like: “It will never happen again”, “I’m gonna forget it”…
But you are stuck in the middle of the ocean, even with the ocean around; you only want a drop! And everything changes, happens, improves, your life goes on… But your heart stays there, in the middle of the ocean… This is SAUDADE.